Love me or hate me...

Let's take a trip back to when things were awesome and we were way cooler than the rest, still cruisen main street, & tasting beer for the first time.. that's right I'm talking about 2007..senior year...the year we all thought we were hotter than the rest, 18 and complete hardasses...haha don't act like you were above it. Everyone thought that they were the shit..you'll see what I mean later :)

But  anyways in 07 a song came out that I (and every other high school girl that I hung out with) LOVED...it was "Love me or hate me" by Lady Sovereign. We cranked it up and sang it loud and proudly like we had something to prove!

And like the kick ass song says "Love me or hate me, still an obsession. Love me or hate that is the questions?" Haters gonna hate & they hate for good reason. You're doing something right if you have fans, good or bad. It's how you handle what they throw at you that determines who you are. Sadly and shamefully, I didn't handle recent events in a way that would make me proud. But that was then, this is now. I know how I would handle the situations if I had the chance again... so if any of you are going through a drama or harassment, remember it's easier to fall to their level than to raise above it, but no one gets anywhere in life by taking the low road... It is extremely easy to get wrapped up in the drama of the "he said, she said" but at the end of the day, trust me you will regret it... it's like a drug or shot of whiskey. The highs are short lived and the lows are destructive to you and all those around you...
 
Remember to NEVER let someone else define you! [& that goes for friends, family, bfs/gfs, bosses, bullies, whoever!] The older I get the more I find myself and who I wanna be and thankfully I have had some amazing (and not so amazing) people in my life to help me get to that point. I am unique in every sense and i love it. You can try to be me but you will fail miserably. And quite frankly why would you wanna be me?? You are you and you're amazing enough!

Katy Perry's new song, "Part of me" fits this perfectly as well...check it out! It's a total "suck it" kinda song (my fav!) later!  xoxo whit

PS- This is what I'm talking about...

(I miss the gangster dueces and duck lips...You could never go wrong with this pose!)

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